Sunday, September 21, 2014

The Milker dilemma

This is the hankee that confuses me a bit.  My personal opinion is that if you suck dick (Light Blue Hankee) then you swallow.  Why suck otherwise.  Again, this is my own opinion.  But back to milking.  The hankee symbolizes those who swallow cum.  Whether you jack them off, suck them dry, or simply tell them to cum (it works with some subs), milking is the act of swallowing.

For me, I would have to wear the Light Blue (cock sucker), and a white hankee (jerk off) with the holstein.  Damn that's three hankees just dealing with the process.  My suggestion is that there is a light blue and white with Holstein pattern.  I would have to think about it to determine the best approach without having to sew several hankees together.

Personally, I'm surprised that Holstein represents swallowing and not cowboys (rust hankee).  On a side note, Holstein makes an excellent bed covering for playing.  I like using one with bed bondage and fisting.  It just fits.

Would I wear the Milker hankee.......hell ya.  Of course, there are about 8 other hankees I would wear so I would need to prioritize based on what I'm into that particular night.  But since I almost always swallow (there are some who taste bad), I need to add this hankee to my pocket.

The general rule is that if the hankee is in the left pocket you swallow, where as if you were it on your right, you are willing to be swallowed (who's not willing).  Personally, I have not seen a Holstein hankee on the right side, only left./

Yellow and White Zigzag - Electric Play

One of the first experiences I had as a mentor for being a Master was being introduced to electric play.  Specifically, a Folsom Tens unit.   Wow, it hurt like it again.  So how is it that there was never a designated hankee for such a fun activity.  You can use a Tens unit on pretty much every body part or cavity.  My favorite is the nipple clamps followed by the ball ring.  There are also dildos that use the Tens Unit and that is a very interesting feeling.

There have been cases of loss of sensitivity when Tens Unit is used too high for too long of a duration.  However, that is extreme and for the most part, only pain occurs with no damage.  There are many sites that sell Tens Units with attachments.  I've tried to find the Folsom unit but have not been successful.  It had a great set of attachments and has a VERY strong current.

I personally like to fuck some ass while I'm zapping my sub.  I've been told it increases the sensation and causes larger orgasms (just more to swallow).  The good part of a Tens Unit is that it manages itself once settings are set.  Plug the sub up and go onto other play scenes while they experience the Tens Unit.

Black with Orange Stripes - Fire Play

Introducing a new hankee for those of us who appreciate fire play.  Whether it is fire cupping or the more elaborate form of fire play.  Personally I like fire cupping as it leaves a good mark on the body without injury.

Fire cupping uses glass "cups" that seal upon the skin when a fire is lite under the cup.  Once the fire has been started, the cup is placed on top of the small fire.  Most use a leather strip to lite the fire on, but a more extreme approach is to lite the fire directly on the skin.  This is not recommended for newbies as doing incorrectly can lead to permanent skin damage and possible scarring.   FIre cupping is actually based on a chinese medicine and is still used professionally.  You can check out a youtube video that shows it being used as chinese medicine at

The other form of fire play is a free form fire event.  It consists of using fire wands and alcohol.  The alcohol is placed 
directly on the skin.  When done effectively, there is no harm to the receiver as the fire is immediately dispensed as soon
as it.  This form of fire play is more common in dungeon settings as the result is for the benefit of the watcher and not
necessarily the receiver.  This form of play can be very.....very....dangerous.  The risk is not only to the receiver of the fire play
but is also a risk to the fire player.  Alcohol can be difficult to manage when a newbie.  Pour too much alcohol on the receiver
and increase the risk of damaging the skin.  Stating such, once you become familiar with the fire itself, you can increase the 
alcohol.  When done correctly, it is a very stunning play to observe.


Tuesday, September 16, 2014

The Flogger Hankee

New (proposed) Hankee to consider

I would like to introduce you to a potentially new hankee for flogging.  Something dear to me personally, I love to flog, self flog, or get flogged.  But in the realm of hankee's, there's currently no hankee for flogging.  This with a red emblem of a flogger would be real nice.  A flogger is comprised of a handle with many strands of different types of materials attached to create the fall of the whip. It can be made of almost any material.